Nobody is perfect and that is a fact! There is no shield, potion, talisman or whatever there is out there that can give you the immunity from doing the wrong and undesirable; we all know that. So I believe that as long as that person who has done something against you admits his mistakes, asks for forgiveness, makes up for it- whatever it takes and waits for the "tamang panahon," I guess he or she deserves a second chance. Besides, in the end, what matters is not whether who was right or wrong, how intense the fault is or hating each other for life, rather, how each party deals with the issue- hopefully, with love, forgiveness, an open mind and most importantly, with the desire to keep the relationship alive.
Should we test relationships?
Stop! Mhmm stop! Think about this, *every step you take, every move you make, every vow you break, every single day, is testing you!!* Creepy huh, but that fact itself proves that tests are essential in a person's life- for growth, learning, and improvement, and therefore, most especially in relationships. Probably of course as long as the testing doesn't go overboard right?!! No killing or hurting or too much jealousy in disguise... just remember something too much is never good, so I agree in testing relationships but always with its limitations.
How should we respond to the kindness given to us?
Chickenpox. Kindness and how we should respond to it is so chickenpox. I knoww WHAT WHY? But come on, use your imagination people! It is so Chickenpox because when somebody transfers their Chickenpox virus to you, you do not really give it back, instead you pass it on, and this time, more intensely. Next, the moment Chickenpox is bequeathed to you, you will feel it so deeply, it will affect you for a very long time, and it will leave a mark, (lol literal spots too, so do NOT scratch them haha!) however, as much as you want them to stay forever, there is no forever *bahaha jk* so you would have to pay it forward and give it to somebody else. Also, like in having Chickenpox, you would not be comfortable till you give away the virus in you and throw it up in the air, just like how kindness should be- we should also not be satisfied till we fully lift it up from ourselves and share it to others. So let us go and fill the world with Chickenpox! Ehem I mean kindness!
